Instructions or signals are always there around us

Develop a level of awareness in everyday life

In the reality of our lives everyday, so many signals or instructions from God the Almighty on us each useful for self-development process. Instructions or signal is often overlooked by us for granted.

There is an interesting story that I experienced a few moments ago. This story happened during a meeting with my old friend, we call it as a mother Jackie, in at a restaurant in a mall in South Jakarta numbers. The meeting between two friends and family who have not seen for so long would normally carry a lot of stories. As for work, the children and stories about old friends who had seldom any other meet.

But of all the nostalgia and stories that, for some reason there is a story, which is always repeated by the mother Jackie, namely the faithful servant, call it as mbok ipeh. These assistants have many years with them, since they were first married. Although very loyal and hardworking, there is one less thing that they enjoy from the ipeh Mbok. He often complained.

Ibu Yanti told (many times and with the spirit) that is complaining mboknya in any case, can complain in small or large. For example when Jackie's mother came home shopping and bring soap bonus small size, mbok ipeh accepted by grumbling, saying "that store, ngasih small gift like this ... kok very stingy". Or at any other time, when Jackie's mother cat has been throwing dirt even places that have been determined, mbok aja ipeh still complaining and grumbling that the cat feces, thus, so and so. Or at any other time, when Jackie's mother buy food, mbok ipeh often complained that the newly purchased food is less tasty and so forth, and so on ... ..

In fact these stories frequently heard and the above happens in our lives everyday.

And our family just smiled listening to it.

But eventually I had to answer when Jackie's mother asked directly to me,

"How tuh? deh annoyed me, yes there are ways to reduce the nature of guns Mbok? ", I was forced to give answers,

"You're doing just now?"

"Yes ... the story of my mbok ... how??" Mother Jackie said with a little pissed off.

"The story or complaining?" I asked him

"Hmmmm ... .. the story, but, also yes ... sigh. Hahahahaha" mother Jackie said, slapping his own head.

Next I tried to explain to the mother Jackie that we should always try to see the signal and introspective. Mbok ipeh with personality-nature, which always exist in reality life for herself the mother Jackie was, consciously or unconsciously are made Yanti own mother, she is attractive mbok ipeh in life., And mbok ipeh could be a reflection or a reflection of the mother Jackie alone. Mbok ipeh can be a hint or a signal for the mother Jackie for introspection and look within himself. Ibu Yanti could unknowingly was a complainer, too.

Answering the question of our friends about mbok ipeh, finally I can only advise him to keep reminding mbok ipeh to not complain and always be grateful.

Next I told the mother Jackie, that's more important is that she should always be grateful to accept the situation, whatever its form and in any case. By always grateful, he would, as it also eliminates the complaints that there was in him.

Grateful is the most powerful weapon in increasing the positive energy and awareness in our lives.

And of course the most interesting part of it is, that in addition to mbok ipeh is a signal for the mother Jackie, we, too, get a signal from the mother Jackie.

He is a signal for me alone, or also perhaps make my family members who were at the meeting and listen to my mother Jackie told me ..

Maybe we are still often complain or still less awareness to always be grateful. With the mother Jackie, we get the signal to increase our awareness of qualities that are in need of repair.

There are many simple stories that happen around our lives everyday. And you are like me, would often experience. But perhaps you and I often spent just a really simple events may carry clues or signals for the development of ourselves.

Usually we are much easier to recognize the signal or the instructions of God that is more "excited" and pass a simple visible signal according to our perception.

But the signal is fixed signal, the instructions are still instructions, either simple or excited. What is needed is to increase our awareness or consciousness of the instructions or signals. We must be more sensitive to hear and feel, and accept it as an input in the process to improve ourselves in enjoying the experience of life we are living it. 

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