Failure That Are Not There

 By: M. Suyanto 

After having a positive mental attitude as the foundation to become entrepreneur, creating and trying to chase a dream, take a step with start a business without money, know the secrets of business inflated, then step The fourth is to accept failure as a lesson. Failure is a label that we often associate with an action that did not work and so applied, these labels make us say people who are not able or person failed. This decreases our enthusiasm to be successful.  

At the moment we are still small, the failure has no meaning, because we do not have the concept of "failure". If we have the concept of failure, then we do not will be able to speak, because we can only weep. If we want to drink mother's milk, then we just cry, the mother of us already know. When urinating, chills or hot enough to cry immediately responded by parents. Start a word which not clearly out of his mouth, although it is unclear both our parents are not consider that a failure, even the opposite is the success, they have been very happy, so that finally we can talk.  

Similarly, the bias is only sleep supine, prone, sitting, starting crawling, walking exercises with innumerable falls. People around do not sneer when he fell, not insults when crying in pain, but embraced, kissed, rocked, entertain and motivate people to learn to walk again with difficulty, but finally we can run. If the small time, we have the concept of "failure" then we will never be able to speak, walk, writing, reading and so forth. We are very fortunate and thankful to God have parents who do not teach the concept of "failure" as a kid. Indeed, the real failure is "no", only the results are not in accordance with what we want or failure is merely feedback to reach the success or failure is merely an information that we need and try to dig deeper so that we can utilize to success.  

My experience when I first taught by Grandma selling kedondong me, so I left early to sell kedodong school, then holding a newspaper and peddling kedondong over the newspaper. From 6 hours morning until 7am, when the bell was rung school admission, none I bought kedondong. Then I pack the merchandise I, kedondong with the newspaper as a base to sell, I include school backpacks. In our language, no one to buy is a "failure", but actually provide feedback or information, no one bought kedodong in the morning, for fear of eating kedodong if stomach pain or information that since early morning had breakfast, then it is full, and so forth. When break time came, I wares again. There are two little girls of my friend who bought the same class kedondong, probably felt sorry for me. "How Yan cost?" They asked. "Five rupiah can be three" I replied. "Diibuhi huh?" They ask for more. "Yes. Please "I replied. Two little girls who buy kedondong that's me. From there, Yanto was no longer sell small kedodong in the morning, he finally sold kedodong in the daytime or in the afternoon. Likewise in the business world, we can also using a concept which does not recognize such failures during childhood, then God willing we will succeed in managing the business.